Q: The comment about the 15 and 30 year old being in love is bothering me... I was in that situation and I believed I loved a guy old enough to be my dad but I had issues and wanted a man, older to give me attention because my own father wasn't. I wasn't in love, I was is need. I also hadn't experienced life yet and even if I believed I was mature and he would tell me I was, I was 15. I think you need to be careful how you give advise on this subject.