Q: To the 14 year old, dating a 17 year old: I think it's really ridicolous that people think three years is a huge age difference. People say that there is a big age difference between 14 and 17 but when it comes to 30 and 33 it's suddenly normal. Just trying to prove this point; don't listen to what anyone tells you. If you are happy, it's no one elses business. :)