Hi Dreamer :), I have read a couple of your advices lately and currently just don't know what I... May 29 2014

Q: Hi Dreamer :), I have read a couple of your advices lately and currently just don't know what I want. I really hope u can help me. I have been together with my boyfriend for exactly 1 year 5 months, I know this sound really weired but its important to know. We are both unbelievabely happy and I love him with all of my heart. problem is.. I can't get rid of my crush over another guy.. it stayed for 1 year and 6 months now and is really bothering me.. I found out he likes me too. What should I do?

Well, it’s sounds like to me that you’re forcing your relationship with the guy you’re dating. You may like him, but obviously this “crush” means something to you, and you wouldn’t even be asking me if you were commuted and lie your boyfriend more. Yes sometimes you like other people in a relationship , but at the end of the day you realize that they’re the only one for you, and that’s not you