Q: I've always said I never believed in love or marriage and I don't want kids. But I've made friends with one of my coworkers who has a two year old son who I babysit and she's now married to the baby's father and they're at just too cute. And they kinda make me wanna get married and settle down. But everyone knows I don't do that so all they wanna do is hook up but I'm looking for more than that now. I don't know what to do