Q: Dear people, don't even try to be with someone if your soul is broken, even if you love them, MORE if you love them. Try to fix yourself before starting with someone else, otherwise, they'd get sad they can't fight your fights. You'll hurt them. I told you this, because I've recently, broke the heart of the one I love because I can't give her what she needs since I'm too depressed and I'm so gray. She said it was toxic.