I fell out of love with the most caring, perfect person and I have to break up with him. But it... April 16 2014

Q: I fell out of love with the most caring, perfect person and I have to break up with him. But it feels like there's something wrong with me, that I don't love him the same way I used to even though he goes above and beyond for me and loves me unconditionally. How do I move on from this and let myself be happy without feeling defective?

It hurts because you were in love with him, and that doesn’t mean you don’t love and care for him anymore, you’re just not in love with him. Just take some time and space to reconfigure what you want in life