Q: Confession; my life is going downhill fast. My friends are starting to leave me and not like me anymore. One of my best friends think that I'm a slut now just because I lost my virginity (I'm 16). My friend also resents me for something that happened between me and a guy she had a thing for.. That happened like a year ago. I've lost a handful of friends within the last couple months. My boyfriend@me aren't exactly great. We fight a lot. ALOT. But I love him. It's hard to stay positive nowadays.