Q: ok so I have a guy friend and he as a track record of being a player. I've kinda liked him on and off for a while. he just asked me out and he told me that he would change for me and wouldn't hurt me. he goes to my church so I would only see him 1ce a week. I'm scared if I date him he's going to hurt me. should I trust him or not date him at all. please help!