our natural instinct is to compare ourselves to other people, consciously or subconsciously, that is something you cannot stop. HOWEVER, it is your choice on how that affects you. You can either ponder and point out all of your flaws compared to other girls and wallow in self pity, but that doesn’t help at all, OR you can acknowledge that everyone is different and beautiful in their own different way, and think about, what you DO like about yourself and use that to your advantage