Love your blog! Question. My partner's best friend is into me. So far we've only flirted, but the... February 24 2014

Q: Love your blog! Question. My partner's best friend is into me. So far we've only flirted, but the flirts are very hot and steamy. What should I do now? Yes, I like them both, but I feel like he will not take me seriously as my partner of 2 yrs do.

Just because you aren’t cheating physically doesn’t mean you aren’t cheating. Would you be comfortable telling you partner about that? I don’t think so… it sounds like you are only with you partner for the convince and that is unfair to them. You either need stop whatever is going on with the friend or breakup with your partner