Q: to that anon about talking to her ex again.. if he is not allowing you the time to get to a safe feeling with him again he is being selfish. He is especially selfish talking about speaking with another ex of his. All eyes on you alone. otherwise you'll just get into dating him again because of pressure.. About your friends, they will love you no matter what and they will support your decision.. Dont make decisions because of your ex or your friends. THink about what you want!