I'm in love with my bestfriend. I told her everything, who I felt about her, how happy she makes me.... February 23 2014

Q: I'm in love with my bestfriend. I told her everything, who I felt about her, how happy she makes me. But, even though she doesn't want to work things out with him, she says she still loves her ex. He was her first serious relationship. We hang out everyday, usually at her house. Don't get me wrong, I love spending time with her, but I feel like I'm only hurting myself. I don't want to move on from her, but I hate feeling this way. what should I do?

it sounds like right now she just needs a friend to help her with her ex