I have matured greatly over the years and I know the effort that has to be put into a relationship,... January 26 2014

Q: I have matured greatly over the years and I know the effort that has to be put into a relationship, but I have a few questions. I broke up with my first love, only to find myself lost and heartbroken. He is trying to move on , and doesn't wanna talk for awhile .. But at this point in my life, he's all I want. He has a thing with this girl on my campus.. He knows that I don't get along with this girl .. But yet she's all he thinks about . How do I make him fall in love all over again?

Our first loves are always going to mean something to us… and when we are vulnerable, we make excuses and see every reason why they are meant for us… but you can change or force people to feel things… it sounds like he moved on, you should just cut your losses, give yourself time to heal, then find someone worthy of you