I just joined Tumblr. I love your collection. Umm okay, so there's this guy in my college. I love... January 03 2014

Q: I just joined Tumblr. I love your collection. Umm okay, so there's this guy in my college. I love him a lot. We became amazing friends and slowly steadily fell for each other. But he had a gf at that moment. And as you know, you have no control over love. Its been 6 months knowing him and around 4 months loving him. He told me he loves me even when he was in a relationship, I could see it in his eyes. I can still feel it. But the problem is how will I get to know he is saying the truth? Strange.

well, with a delicate situation like this… If I was in your position, I do not think I would be comfortable having feelings for someone in a relationship, especially if they continue to remain in that relationship. Plus if you were to pursue a relationship with him, I would be terrified that once he was with you, he would find another girl on the side. I am not doubting that he may love you and vice versa, I would be cautious and make him prove his love for you