well, I suppose if they you must ask yourself… are they worth perusing? Sometimes we get in our heads that the people we like or are infatuated by that they are perfect for us, when  in reality we create someone that is perfect, but is not the,. Do you get what I mean? You need to really search within yourself to ask yourself, are they worth it? if you truly believe you are, then it is meant to be. just try talking to them, hang out with their friends, and just try be really open and friendly around him