Q: -at the last anon about missing someone- if you miss someone who doesnt give a single shit about you, do not, i repeat, Do Not spend any time on them. get over them as soon as you possibly can. even people who arent directly toxic to you can damage you so bad. i spent two years of my life wallowing about the love of my life when they wouldnt lift a hand for me. do not do that! please be careful, like they say, dont cross an ocean for someone who wont jump a puddle.