I recently moved to a new state and I thought that I would stay super close with my friends at home... September 12 2015

Q: I recently moved to a new state and I thought that I would stay super close with my friends at home but every time I try to talk to them they ignore me. I don't know what to think because I have avoided making friends here so I wouldn't drift from the friends at home but it's really backfiring on me.

Regardless of your friends back home, you should make new friends where you are. After all that is where you are now and if you don’t have anyone it’ll be very lonely. As for your friends, if they no longer are willing to put in the effort, then let them go. Because that obviously shows they don’t value you enough and you don’t need “friends” like that