there's this guy that i have been on and off with for 2 years now and i care and love him so much.... September 01 2014

Q: there's this guy that i have been on and off with for 2 years now and i care and love him so much. but last year i picked some douche bag over him and he found some other girl. we still talk all the time and we act like we are dating whenever we are together. the problem is he is still dating that other girl he was with. she moved away like an hour but they still talk all the time. she is a really controlling girl. i have tried telling him how i feel but he just kinda ignores it. what do i do?

The problem is it seems like he’s still hurt, he may not show it, but he could sill be hurting. I don’t know if it’s just to spite you, but obviously you chose the other guy over him and then it didn’t work out. So you and that other guy weren’t meant to be. If you and him are truly meant to be, maybe he needs to realize it won’t workout with the other girl for himself