I've been best friends with this girl for a really long time and she's changed alot since we have... September 01 2014

Q: I've been best friends with this girl for a really long time and she's changed alot since we have became friends but for the past 2 years she has became somewhat arrogant and has tried to change me alot, she ignores me when a better offer comes along, and just recently for the sixth time she ditched me when I really needed her. We've been through a lot and we have a lot of great memories with eachother but she seems distant. I was wondering if you think I should end our friendship or try more?

The thing is, with any relationship, it require TWO People, if one doesn’t care and doesn’t try, yet the other is giving everything, they can’t compensate for the others lacking. I know you have a history and all, but I think you know it’s time to move on when you love the memories more than the person they are now