Q: Hey, there. I absolutely love your blog! I know you receive and answer many questions and truly admire that.. So I'm giving it a go. My boyfriend cheated on me with numerous girls by sexting through FaceTime, IM, etc. he finally had the balls to admit that, I had known for months.. The thing is, I had a friend with benefits before we were dating.. Should I be lenient towards him because of what I did?