I need a little help. My best friend is seeing this guy who goes to our church and he is really bad... April 10 2014
Q: I need a little help. My best friend is seeing this guy who goes to our church and he is really bad for her. He is a player, doesn't care, and treats my friend badly. They are crazy about each other and I've tried to tell her that he is no good for her. I'm inly saying this because I don't want to see her get hurt. But she won't listen and is pushing me away.. How should I deal with it? If I leave them alone she's gonna get hurt. If I do something i might start a fight and I'll get pushed away:(
You said they are crazy about eachother, does that mean he actually cares for her and since they’ve been dating has he stopped his bad habits? Because people are not defined by what they did and if he is changing you need to realize this. Also, it’s her life, her choices. Sometimes people just need to make their own mistakes to learn and grow, let her make her own choices. You don’t need to support them together, but you should support her because she obviously mean a lot. Let her know you support HER and HER CHOICES