I'm pregnant. The father and I aren't together but he's still around a lot. He struggles within... April 04 2014

Q: I'm pregnant. The father and I aren't together but he's still around a lot. He struggles within himself & he has a lot of self hate. I've noticed its gotten worse. I want to be with him, but I know he needs help. I don't know what to do. :/

you cant really save anyone, all you can do is love then and make sure they know you are supporting them