So I'm 14 and in 8th grade and I've been dating this guy for a year. Lately we've been talking about... April 01 2014

Q: So I'm 14 and in 8th grade and I've been dating this guy for a year. Lately we've been talking about having sex and he doesn't have condoms so he said he would pull out. But it scares me because what if he accidentally came ? He said he would be sure to pull out if he feels it but I'm still scared. Not to mention it's gunna hurt because I'm a virgin. What do I do ?

First of all, just pullin out will not prevent you from getting pregnant it is still possible for you to become pregnant because there is sperm in pre-ejaculation. So based on that, and the fact you don’t have condoms I would say don’t. Also, don’t do it because he is pressuring you, and this goes for any aspect o your relationship. If you’re not comfortable don’t do it, and if he truly loves you, he’ll wait an understand