My boyfriend broke up with me today. He told me that it's mostly my fault. That I put no effort into... March 31 2014

Q: My boyfriend broke up with me today. He told me that it's mostly my fault. That I put no effort into the relationship. Where I feel like it's the other way around. There was a rumor going around about him cheating on me with his ex girlfriend (who's mean to me and a slut) but they're apparently best friends. I'm just really confused and I need help.

if you think that he wasn’t putting effort to begin with, then maybe the right thing happened because if it wasn’t working out, it saved you from having to break up with him