The truth is, I am unhappy with myself. When I say this i mean it.. I will never truly love myself... March 13 2014

Q: The truth is, I am unhappy with myself. When I say this i mean it.. I will never truly love myself until I am what I want to be, but I don't know how to get there. I am a little on the fat side and I hate it. It stops me from getting guys to like me and basically being myself because I don't wanna be fat, I wanna be thin and actually fit in clothes! But the issue is, I eat a lot. When I am bored or not even hungry. I just go in the kitchen eat I can't stop. and then I hate myself for it. Help :(

look, I am all for losing weight to gain more confidence, but don’t do it because you hate your body, do it because you love it. Just know that if guys are shallow enough to not like you, simply because of your weight, then they obviously aren’t the one because you deserve better than superficial guys. If you want to loose some weight try eating healthier and cutting back on food, maybe delegate specific times or amounts on when you want to eat, get other people to either join in or support you. but

REMEMBER, you are NOT just your height, weight, age, gender, sexuality, religion, or ethnicity, you are so much more, so don’t let one thing define you, beautiful