Pleaaase answer this! My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago I still really love him alot!... March 08 2014

Q: Pleaaase answer this! My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago I still really love him alot! And I want to be friends cause maybe we could start over and fall for eachother again cause maybe we dated at the wrong time we barley knew eachother and the time we dated was like we were getting to know eachother! He was my first everything and I was his and he doesn't want to have a big part in my life at all he just wants to move on when I want the opposite.. Advice please!!!! Ur amazing btw!!

Our first loves are always going to have significant meaning to us, its just how we are and what we will continue to compare most things too… however if he doesn’t feel the same way, you cant force him to, and if he doesn’t want to be friends you cant force him to either. There’s a difference between loyalty and stupidity, who knows maybe years from now later something may work out, or maybe you’ll realize how it wasn’t meant to be because you’ve found someone better.