I really need your help!! I think i love this guy but everyone says that he is a player. Sometimes... February 18 2014

Q: I really need your help!! I think i love this guy but everyone says that he is a player. Sometimes he's so nice and then he's such an asshole... But when i'm with him we have so much Fun and i smile like an idiot the whole time. I really don't know what I should think about him. He asked if i like to stay the night at his house this weekend. I'm so confused! I don't want to be just another girl for him but if I don't try it I will never know. Right?

hmm, well, I would be cautious simply because if he nice one moment, then an asshole the next, that’s not a good sign. also, the fact that everyone says he is a player, doesn’t help… he could just be using you, not going to lie… definitely spend time with him and get to know him more, but whether you stay the night is up to you