I've been dating a boy for a few months and he's coming over tonight. He has been constantly hinting... February 13 2014

Q: I've been dating a boy for a few months and he's coming over tonight. He has been constantly hinting at sex but I'm just not ready, I have scars from self harm on my legs and I just don't want him to know. How could I get around it?

well, this is two different things. if you’re not ready then you’re not ready and if he truly cares for you he will wait. About your legs, the things is, if you are in a relationship with him, and it is serious, he deserves to know. that’s what a relationship is, accepting each other, getting courage and guidance, and working anything out, TOGETHER