Okay, so, here's my problem. I'm a transguy, but I pass really well, and most of the time people... January 27 2014
Q: Okay, so, here's my problem. I'm a transguy, but I pass really well, and most of the time people don't notice until I have to tell them and explain things to them, so I'm not out to many people, but like.. If I really like a girl, and I want to try to ask her out, when do you think it would be the best for me to tell her? I don't want to tell her right away, but I also don't want to wait until the last minute and be like "surprise! I was born a woman!" I'm just really stressed over it. Help?
ok, I think it should definitely be early into the relationship, but not like the first date. I think you will just know the right time because you cant really plan anything by date. However, do it before you get physical. Also, if she really likes you she will accept you for who you are, anyone that doesn’t, doesn’t deserve you