Q: I've been on and off a relationship with a guy for 4 years. He didn't like this but I did. We took a year gap because I got scared of people knowing I was gay. We started talking and fell for each other again. I was gonna come out and get serious but for a week I was distant and he got scared and dumped me. He never stops taking about me and how he's over me. He has a bf now but I don't know if he really likes him or if it's to make me jelly. Is he really over me or just scared to get hurt again