Q: Hii, do you have any advice for me to not fear love? I'm scared to just fall for someone because I really don't want to be hurt. I guard my heart like a defensive shield around it. I did encounter some guy on a bus once and we exchanged #'s. He did text me many times, but I'm not a texter (like constantly on my phone) And so I stopped and ignored him. I know it's wrong. But I was also in a depressing mode. I really wanna know, what would I do to reject him but in a un-rude way?