One of my best friends doesn't really care about being friends any more, we hardly speak (and only... December 20 2014

Q: One of my best friends doesn't really care about being friends any more, we hardly speak (and only when I talk first), she's made loads of other new friends at uni and she just can't be bothered for us anymore. How do I get over this?

Okay, she’s obviously moving on in her life and you should do the same. The truth is, friendships are not about how long you’ve been friends, it’s about who stayed by your side and never left. Go out there and be yourself, go make new friends. Because honestly, if someone doesn’t put the effort and want you in their life, why should you?