Q: Ok I'm sorry, I know you don't know me personally and I keep sending you messages. I would like to ask someone who is on the outside if I'm doing the right thing and they don't know the full story. Is it ok if I fan message you the whole story and see what you say? It's ok to say no I mean I am a complete stranger and I don't want to cause any trouble.. I just need some help from someone who isn't biased. Can you message me privately if it is ok?