I'll just post it here, feel free to answer your opinion honestly May 03 2015
Okay, so I have this friend who has basically been my best friend for a long time, but recently she has been changing. But the issue I have been having is every time I asked her to hang out she says I’ll have to ask. Then I have to literally keep asking until the day I asked to hang out, and she says she can’t. So I’m there waiting for her to answer if she can or not, which it’s always a no. So I said to myself, okay if she wants to hang out she will ask me then, seeing as she’s always busy. Then I see on snap stories or whatever that she hangs out with other people, even people that she said she doesn’t even like. Of course I’m hurt and disappointed that she would want to hang out with them over me. Now we talk a lot in school and text pretty often, but she never ever asks me to hang out and I’m confused and I feel sort of used. I have confronted her many times telling her if she doesn’t want to hang out, just say it immediately and not leave me questioning. So it’s actually driving me crazy because all she responds is okay or something like that, and then I feel bad for confronting her. Now I dont know what to do, please help
**added** She said she has some friends that she doesn’t even like and she just likes the gossip from then. And then there’s friends like me, I’m one of the only people she tell personal stuff to, which I know she confides in me. So I’m lost, because obviously she trusts me and must value me, but then why doesn’t her actions show it?